Believe Me I'm Lying

Due to these upcoming events and other things, I have found it on my heart to start engaging more in my prayer life. My prayer life, or sometimes lack thereof has been the downfall of my walk with Christ. Sometimes I get so caught up my day to day activities that I forget or never get around to simply talking with God. It’s something that my life needs because I have needs. 

Let’s be frank, life is good but sometimes I just let things really get to me. It’s because of all of these fears, doubts, failures that I have began turning to God. It’s still something that I am consistently working on but the amount of joy I find in casting all of my worries on Christ presents an overwhelming sense of satisfaction and encouragement. Prayer is a powerful thing.

As I continue on my journey I begin to find a new sense of trust and relief in God that I can’t find anywhere on this earth. I really wish that there was another way to fully escape some of life’s hardships but the only way to fully relieve it’s stresses is by praying and giving it all to God. 

Upon this upcoming trip to Ireland here in 2 days I have really been praying that God heal me, use me, and help me find peace in a place that last time offered me one of the greatest times of peace in my life. Things make it a little different but I trust that I can help me let go and find peace, allowing him to work through me, helping me change the lives of the people of Northern Ireland. All I know is that I love Jesus with all of my heart and I realize that he has a plan for me. If I pray and ask for him to guide me, and give me opportunity he will do so. That’s what an all loving God does.

Romans 8:26
In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express.

808s and Heartbreak

Let's focus on the opposite sex for this blog.

I'm always a "great guy" but never good enough to be dateable it seems.

I mean everyone has their crushes and interests. Some have one, some have a couple, I don't think it's that bad or uncommon. But the thing that sucks the most is when you start letting this issue consume your days, your weeks.

I have put everything I want in front of my relationship with Jesus. It's a serious turnoff for about anyone who will read this and I don't think most people will believe me when I say that it's never been an act of desperation to find my soulmate. I'm perfectly happy being single, I have time, money, it's great.

I know one day I'll find a gorgeous, perfect girl and I am going to do my best to be the best husband and loving father that I can be. I think about it form time to time and it makes me happy knowing in my heart that I am going to be able to put that girl up on a pedestal and make her feel like she is the most loved and important person in the entire world. I hope I make her understand that she is my everything and I will love her until death. I'll be a great father, and show my kids how much they mean to me and that they are the most precious things to me, along side their mother. But that is a ways down the road.

But it's been getting in the way of a lot of things. I have been worrying about trying to find happiness in others that I have been ignoring that Jesus has been trying to get my attention. Amongst the emotions of this week God has seriously been like "snap out of it, um I'm waiting." I think this is a time for me to build my personal security and find out my identity.

I can't believe I have put a self serving love in front of an unconditional love that just wants me to let him take care of it. I'll be honest I am really scared to let someone else be in control of my life. That and I lack patience. I don't feel like I have let God play a big enough role to ease my nerves about all of this stuff, maybe that's why I am so frustrated. I need to let God show me that I am a good guy, build my security, show me what he wants for me and then he'll take care of things.

God is such a huge deal to me, I think that I have always been so concerned with taking care of things myself that I have just shoved him to the side and that's probably why things don't ever work out. I honestly feel like if they did they probably wouldn't be good. if I wasn't complacent with God's involvement in my own life, they'd be a mess if I threw someone else into the equation.

I love Jesus with all my heart. I have always associated myself with David. Like David I have always defied God, but I want to be the greatest follower of God, be a man after his heart. I want to be steadfast in my faith and truly believe and trust that someone else can make everything go right, that someone else will make things great for me. But I always do the opposite and do what he wants. Maybe it's time to let go and let God start leading my life where he has always meant for it to go.
~B

Dinner With A Gypsy

   So my summer is officially over. It was a long grueling one at that too, working in the paving business. Well I didn't do actual paving, but about everything else associated with it (seal-coating, urethane for running tracks, crack filling, resurfacing tennis courts) basically 11-15 hour days all week long. Total suckage, but awesome...buckage? (Yes I win that one) It made me learn to appreciate those individuals who are in these lines of work.

I guess if I could pick something out of the summer that really hit me other than the 2 week stint of making $1,000 take home pay it would have to be my final day of work this last Friday. The individuals of Heiberger Paving were the most high quality people, most holding numerous criminal records w/jail time, drug and alcohol addictions and mouths so filthy they would make Lil Wayne look like Joe Jonas. Let's just say it's been a trip.

So my final day I was working with some individuals at a local High School resurfacing a tennis court, and one of the guys just got on my nerves. He couldn't hardly talk, was drinking all day long, yelled at me all the time and basically rolled his eyes at me like I was the most useless person on the planet. He was just a grumpy old strung out guy. I about lost it and made a little gesture that I'm sure he probably caught. I am not proud of it and felt bad and extremely awkward as I realized I would have to drive him back to the shop (suspended license, another thing most people had). As we geared up for our drive back home I actually prayed and said "God, please let this go by quick and not be awkward I can't stand this guy at all." 

God answered my prayer.

But he made it a bit better.

It started when I called my Dad to tell him I was on my way home I mentioned something about the soon to be done tattoo. I hung up the phone and he asked me (drunk btw but still) "What's your tattoo?" I explained it to him, feeling kind of weird that he'd tell me it was stupid cause it's about God. 

No.

"So you religious?"

"Yeah I'm a Christian."

That single question opened up the door for a 30 minute conversation about God, religion, and other things.

Now I understood that he was very firm in not caring about God or religion at all, and nothing was going to change his mind, but the opportunity to plant the seed was there and I got to take it. It's funny how God can take situations like that and make them into such a goldmine of opportunity to share the love of Jesus. 

It was a great summer.   

~B

To The Service

To The Service. What a great title. I absolutely love this song and this band. It's rock and roll worship at it's finest. I think it gives an accurate depiction of how precious worship really is. Paddy really throws out some awesome lyrics.

I think that worship is a time to glorify God for the great things he has done for us. It's a time for us to come clean and prepare for God and his presence. I especially love the line "We will worship like it's the last time." It shows us that we should make it a serious personal event and should hold it up with fervor and entitlement to God like it's the last time we ever will.

Worship is a service to God for the things he's done.

Prepare yourself.

Good stuff.

Little Green Men, Didn't Come From Outer Space

I love Star Wars. One of the greatest film series the world has ever seen. Full of action, suspense, victory, romance and full of life lessons. This scene in particular is one of my favorite scenes in cinema history. Luke Skywalker is in amazement that Master Yoda is able to lift the X-Wing out of the marshes. Skywalker states "I don't believe it", while Yoda simply replies "That is why you fail." One of the best lines of cinema I have ever heard.

I have been looking at getting a tattoo for some time, but I have been in search of one that really reflects my relationship with God. I was lucky enough to come across a design that I found really hit close to home. It is a realistic drawing of a hand reaching out of water grasping onto another hand. Yes I am sure you can figure out where this concept is deriving from and what it is implying. Matthew 14:22-36.




Peter tells Jesus that if it is really him than he will come, to which Jesus replies "Come." A very simple response. Peter begins walking towards Jesus, but begins to doubt and falls into the water. Jesus reaches out and grabs Peter's hand and pulls him to safety.

"You of little faith, why did you doubt?"

I feel a lot like Peter sometimes, willing to get out of the boat but afraid to believe. I feel like Luke Skywalker in that my disbelief causes me to fail.

I don't really think that poorly of myself and my ability but I don't want to be like Luke, "I'll try". It's "Do or do not, there is no try." I know that we can try to please God and that he encourages us to, but I want to be that person who "does". I think sometimes we are so afraid to believe and trust that our "try" lacks motivation. I want to "do".

I dunno I guess I just have a lot of good motivation on my mind right now.

Milestones

I'm one of those people who has had some bad things happen to them that have cut down pretty deep and caused some pain. I know I let it affect me way too much in my life but there's always some moment where it snaps and I get really depressed and bitter towards life. I just keep it in and let it consume me, basically making my life miserable.

There are millions of others out there who suffer from the same type of feeling. But what gets me more than anything is how we hold everything in. Why are we so afraid to use what pain we have gone through to help others? Most of us just keep to ourselves and hold in our stories and emotions, wishing things could be different when we could use what we have learned from our experiences to help make a difference in others lives and help them find the joy and hope they are so desperately seeking.

Jesus experienced the sin and suffering of humanity and used his experience to perform the single greatest act of compassion for mankind. He died to help us understand that despite our nature we are forgiven and can live our lives knowing that we are loved unconditionally and that whether in our ups or our downs, he is always with us. Through his scars we learn to heal.

Seem like a silly concept doesn't it? Sharing the experiences of our pain to ease others? We get so caught up in trying to find answers to our own problems today we rarely think about a simple idea.. Helping others helps us heal.

Jesus calls us to be disciples and to bring others hope. Sharing our scars is a simple act of love that opens the door for others to find that hope and peace that they are searching for.

It's like the lyrics say, "As long as we live, every scar is a bridge to someone's heart, and there's no greater love than that one shed his blood for his friends." The metaphor is an overwhelming statement.

Help others heal.

Love.

Just a thought ~B

Finally...The Ireland Story (or most of it)

Ok so this is way past overdue.

So about 3 weeks ago I was fortunate enough to travel with a missions team of students and staff from here at CCU to the town of Dundrum in North Ireland. Our main focus was to build relationships and work with the youth in the city of Downpatrick.

It was kind of surreal for a while that i was actually about to embark on a journey across the pond. I wasn't really sure what to expect, except that it was going to be an awesome experience that I would never forget. The flight from Cincinnati to Chicago was a breeze, even though we suffered a delayed layover in O'Hare. The flight from Chicago to Dublin was a whopping 7 hours, which was ok because it worked out to where it was an overnight flight and didn't really throw my internal clock off too much. The flight over however was probably one of the most uncomfortable experiences of my entire life. I am pretty sure I got about 2-3 hours of sleep here and there total.

Arriving in Dublin was awesome. The thought that I had just left my entire life, all my problems, all my worries, left almost 3,600 miles away was so gratifying. It was time to let loose and have the most fun I have probably ever experienced in my entire life. Customs was kind of lame to get through because there were only 3 lanes open with a lobby full of about 100+ people coming from America for St. Patty's day. After a little 30 minute stint we were in the country and were on our way to our new home for the next 2 weeks.

We had to drive probably about 2 hours to Dundrum from Dublin stopping at an old cemetery, (I'm not exactly sure where) that held some of the oldest remaining Celtic Crosses in existence. Afterwards we finished our drive to Dundrum and Murlough House where we were staying.

It's an old 1800's manor and was smack dab in the middle of a nature preserve, which was home to some beautiful scenery such as the Mourne Mountains, Irish Coast .

God really has it for these people when it comes to the scenery there. Some of the sights I was introduced to in the first 30 minutes of being in Dundrum are out of this world. There is also a castle right in the town of Dundrum which we went to the first day we were there. Normally it rains all the time in Ireland and somehow we were fortunate enough to be blessed with sunshine for almost the full two weeks. It still averaged around 40 degrees everyday but, wow we were blessed.

The first full day we attended the Downpatrick Presbyterian church in downtown Downpatrick. It's not much different that churches here in America and was very enjoyable. People there were excited to meet us and had loads of questions for us. Later on that evening we were fortunate enough to work with the youth from the Presbyterian church. Some of our best connections we made with people there came from a few of these kids.

Ok real quick this picture to the left is me standing in the middle of Dundrum Bay. Now how you may ask? The tide will come all the way into shore at one point, and an hour later it would be a half mile out to sea. it's so strange I have never seen anything like it before. The whole bay empties out. unreal.

Our basic day was to wake up to breakfast, have some time for a lesson from John Moxen, who is the founder of Murlough and is probably one of the most humble people I have met. I sometimes felt like he could be a little over the top but he is a great speaker none the less. After lessons there would be lunch and then we set off to our different areas that we worked in. There were two teams, one at a place called Knocknashina Park, and the other where I was at which was a soccer field in a development called Model Farm. First understand this, the kids at Knocknashina were a little bit more well mannered than our kids (so you can imagine). It's really different being outside of America. It took about the first 5 minutes working with these kids to see that there is a serious lack of family structure, manners and personal care. I was cussed out by a 2 year old. Yes. 2 year old. They were extremely curious to know who we were and why we were here, and tried to break us by getting us to swear or do bad things, and we simply told them that's not something we believe in.

Over the 2 weeks we were able to make some good progress by getting asked to tell bible stories, which blew some of us away. These kids knew why we were here, and they wanted us to do our jobs it seemed like which was awesome. However, due to reasons beyond my control the local Catholics didn't like our presence at Knocknashina and asked us to leave, which we did the second to last full day, after the work had already been done. Some of the parents were outraged and met up with members of Murlough and Rick to sign a petition for us to come back, and even offered to raise money to bring us back!! I can't begin to explain how that support made us feel as a group. We were loved by people that didn't even know us and wanted us to have another opportunity to do what we came to do.

We had some good stories. Good laughs. I joined in on the cow tag (there are big cows on the preservation that we play tag with) and I was able to tag 2, one in the first and only cow tag drive-by in history. I was proud of myself, however I am still behind Rick (it's his game) and I got busted eventually after a brief fall which tore me up a bit, that ruined cow tag for good I think. Sorry Rick for ruining your dreams.

We were fortunate enough to be in Ireland for St. Patrick's Day which was INCREDIBLE. The parade was fantastic, we attended a prayer-walk from the Saul Church ( below which is the site of the first Christian Church founded by St. Patrick in Ireland) to Downpatrick Cathedral (right). Two miles with 3 stops for prayer over the community. What a spectacular event. Not to mention Downpatrick Cathedral is beautiful.

The sights were incredible during our time. We got to travel to the north coast on our last full day and hit up spots such as Belfast, Giants Causeway and Dunluce Castle (picture is the third one down from the top), Belfast Cathedral, and of course who could forget the BEST fish and chips ever at The Galley.

Have I mentioned God makes awesome scenery?

To the right is the capital building in Belfast, below is Giants Causeway and  below that is Dunluce Castle.

I could go on and on with stories and pictures but I guess this is the point where I sum up my experience. Before our trip I had really felt like I was struggling with the things God wanted to show me. I was angry about things back home and confused and I wanted God to reveal himself to me and to open my eyes to a world outside our perfect "bubble" that we call America. God showed me a culture who is in desperate need of hope, peace and love. Through our work at the prayer room we created in Downpatrick for St. Patrick's day, or the time we spent with the kids at model farm, God showed me he is good, he is genuine and he has a plan for me to help others in this world other than myself. It has given me compassion and motivation to stop living in a selfish state of mind all of the time and to start reaching out to others and telling them about the recent joys I have discovered during my time in Ireland.

One last story. I have never felt more emotion than I did with this. As I sit here at 1:50 AM finishing this my eyes begin to tear. One of our girls from the Presbyterian church had become one of my favorites because we shared some common interest in music. Me being the funny sarcastic American I try to be teased her about not talking too much to us because she "hated us". It was a huge joke. Later on that night, my friend Rachel had said she was talking to her about it and she said she felt bad because she didn't talk much. It was because she didn't want to become attached because we were leaving.

I think that is the memory that has stuck with me the most. I can honestly sit here and tell you that I have never been in a position where we (and I) have brought so much excitement and joy and have this feeling that you have made such an impact in someones life like that. I am praying that God has more in store for me in a returning trip next year. To follow up on what we established and hopefully keep making an impact on the lives of the people in Northern Ireland.

If you'd like to see more pics please click the following links and if you have questions and want to hear more (which I have toms more [ going into the schools, prayer room, etc.] please comment and let me know).

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2019269&id=196902202&l=6a9748d7c4 (Album 1)

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2019272&id=196902202&l=0c1fcba036  (Album 2)

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2019273&id=196902202&l=8a2989df81  (Album 3)

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2019281&id=196902202&l=9f035be695  (Album 4)

Go mbeannaí Dia duit(May God bless you)

~ B